4 keys to having good sex

Keys to good sex.

Overcoming monotony and fatigue.

Think of it like exercise.

As we always say, when it comes to sex, anything goes, as long as both people are in agreement.

It never hurts to receive some advice from people you trust entirely, but it’s even better when it comes from experts.

For a long time, it has been believed that the more sex you have, the better.

However, often, that’s not the case, as monotony can set in and ruin everything.

It’s important to enjoy the experience

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It is worth noting that both men and women can feel some pressure when it comes to intimate relationships.

You must not forget that the whole point is to enjoy the experience — truly letting go and feeling comfortable with your partner.

For this reason, we want to share four keys to good sex that you may find very helpful.

We touch on everything from considering seduction and making sex a priority, to adding a bit of creativity to your sex life.

Keys to good sex: It’s not all about the orgasm

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Many believe the main goal of having sex is to reach orgasm, but it does not necessarily have to be that way. There is much more to it.

Both men and women tend to focus on their genitals and neglect other erogenous zones.

In this case, seduction through imagination and fantasy is crucial and could make your climax more impactful.

It may sound hard to believe, but a simple caress in the right place at the right time is sometimes more than enough.

Let loose and get creative

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Another of the keys to good sex is something that sounds very easy but is challenging for many — creativity.

After many years together, couples tend to do the same thing over and over again when it comes to intimacy.

Don’t be afraid to try something new. Use toys, lubricants, an adult movie… in short, there are thousands of ideas you can try.

However, keep in mind: if you are the one proposing it, talk to your partner beforehand so that you don’t catch them off guard.

Sex starts with seduction

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Many people forget the importance of seduction in a romantic relationship. Foreplay is essential.

It doesn’t matter if you have been married for many years or even if you are dating. Think about it like it’s the first time.

Remember how you won each other over and add a bit more — use your imagination and climax together.

If both of you agree, you can try role playing by meeting in a public place and pretending to be strangers.

Make sex a priority

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Finally, another key to good sex is making it a priority in your life. It should be that way even for health reasons.

It sounds simple to do, but you have to overcome the monotony and fatigue of daily life.

According to La Vanguardia, this could be compared to when we engage in any physical activity. We look forward to doing it again.

With sex, it should be the same. Once we do it, we will want to do it even more. It won’t be an obligation; it will be all about pleasure.